I have had several dreams similar to this...each time I was pregnant and I guess feeling more vulnerable with my DH....I would have very vivid and strongs dreams that involved my first boyfriend, I was totally in love with him, he was hot looking and at times could be really thoughtful, at other times we fought really badly (we were about 18 when we got together) I ended up finishing the relationship 6 years after it started as I just knew he really didn't have the same future plans as what I did. So I guess it was one of those break ups where I still loved him, but I just knew he wasn't right for me.

So it made me wonder why I would dream of him when things weren't at there best with my relationship with my DH, we have been together 10 years now. And I have decided its just that there will always be a part of me that loved the time I had with him and my dreams take me back there. I hope that makes sense.

Oh and I have never told my DH about those dreams, I thought that would just hurt him. No harm done if anything made me address things with my DH