*LOL* I'm the one who wasn't impressed with that suggestion when someone said it to me *L*. I agree, a diaphram isn't very spontaneous. I mean who knows 20mins ahead of time that they're going to DTD?? And it's a bit of a turn off to say hang on a minute while I put my cap on *L*. For me, we are just hoping the minipill works, if not well then it was meant to be. We def wants more kids, just wanting a bit more of a gap between Jess and the next one!
I hope u find something that doesn't dampen the mood too much!