I had two early m/c's before i fell preg. M/C rates are very high, when i tell people i am amazed at the amount of women who have had one. It's something like 1 in 4 pregnancies? My Dr told me that until i had 3 in a row it was considered normal. I have gone on to have two beautiful girls. So try and believe that you are normal and perhaps the next one will be the one.

It always helps me to remind myself that we have m/c for a reason, there is something not right, it's natures way of helping us have healthy babies.
Hang in there.