would she, should she have know it was the boys birthday?

It was maybe a little bit more 'to the point' than needed...

But really who gives a F! You do not and never need to put other peoples feelings before your own when it comes to your boys!

Baby shower might also be insensitive but then again you dont want people to make those choices for you! Like someone else said. A good friend would understand, a not so good friend is not worth worrying about!

Hugs!



Also on a side:: A friend is throwing me a shower for this one and it will be my 6th pregnancy and 4th baby. I have never had one before.
I think they are for whatever baby you want and if you want one for all your babies thats ok. Thats what an invites for, if you dont want to go you just say no.