MissBelinda

Sorry to hear about your friends miscarriage. I think it is better to say something than nothing at all. I think it is best to be upfront by saying something like "if you cant face me being here (by being pregnant) i can leave but i just want to let you know that i am here for you and thinking about you". If she cant face you then she will tell you. If you arent there then she may not be happy that you havent responded in person to her loss.

When i had my miscarriage i was not resentful at all towards pregnant women - i needed my friends (it is very devastating). However when i lost my baby full term that was a different story - could not face nor like ANY pregnant women. Everyone will react differently but i think it is best that you be there for her and let her make the moves on how she feels.

Good luck.