Hi and welcome to BB. So very sorry for the loss of your baby. Today is an especially sad day for you and I am sorry no one has remembered. Just take day by day because every day will be different but in time it will get easier. The pain of losing your angel will never go away but somehow we learn how to deal with that pain and it does get a little easier. Your precious angel will always be close to your heart.
Thinking of you today Cat....it is just so hard...and so lonely. I've never coped well with Christmas...seeing all my siblings with their young families...I have 'missed' two Christmases because I just couldn't do it and I've never regretted putting us first. Do what you need to do to get through each day and if that upset or offends anyone...so what? Nothing is going to be as bad as losing your baby...big hugs xxx
Cat for you. Even though you've come into this community under difficult, painful circumstances, I hope your journey here will bring support, comfort and hope.
Everything you say seems totally understandable. Have you done something to remember your little one? I always find it helps if I mark these occasions.
I am so sorry you have made it to these forums under these circumstances and so sorry for your loss.
The EDD's are always difficult as Gabi suggested maybe a way to help with your healing is to mark the occasion? perhaps burn a candle and say a silent pray. Cry if you need to and know that even when your heart is aching your little angel is watching over you and sending you love from above.
You will find lots of support in these forums and lots of people to comfort you not just through these difficult times but to share your many happy successes.
I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope you find much comfort and support here .
You must feel awful that no one remembered your baby's due date, but the most important thing is that you've remembered it. Some people forget, others chose not to say anything in case they upset you. That's just the the way it goes sometimes. My due date is 12 February 2009, so I wonder how many of my family and friends will remember my little boy's due date.
The type of loss that we've been through, it the hardest life experience that anyone can go through. And sometimes that empty feeling is so overwhelming, we think that it will never go away. With another baby, hopefully it will becomes less painful, although you'll never forget your angel baby. Grieve at your own pace and in your own way, and don't let others tell you what you should or shouldn't be feeling. This is your loss, and you do what feels right for you.
I wish you much sucess in achieving another pregnancy in the very near future.
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