The fallout...

[~Hestia~]

[mummytotwo]

OP - you hit the nail on the head. A lot of what you said could have been written by me or any poor other soul who has suffered the loss of a baby. So many things change & need to be reevaluated - I have been through this a couple of times myself. Work, child care, home plans - they are all thrown up in the air with a loss. It sounds like you are coping as best you can which is all you can do. Time will dull the pain but never take it away completely. Hugs for you xxxx

[RhiChiChi]

Nothing to add other than support and hugs :-(

[Heaven]

Oh OP, I want to hug you

[OceanPrincess]

Thanks gals for all the love and support.

I had a meeting this afternoon with a woman who I'm pretty sure is pregnant. I found myself distracted throughout the meeting by her tummy. Hard to focus.

Delph - I had thought of a plant... a sapling... something I can nurture and watch grow. I think I need to do it, kicking myself I didn't think to do it on the weekend. Maybe this weekend...

Heaven - maybe one day you can give me a hug in person, we are about to book another family holiday to the GC, this time I'd like to meet up, if you're up for it

[Heaven]

Most definitely OP, I would loooooooooove to meet you!

[MummyNaomi]

Oh OP, its totally unfair, sending you lots of hugs, I wish I had the words to offer you some more healing

Hang in there, one day at a time xxxxx

[Melbournemumma]

OP I am soo very sorry. I wish that I could take away some of your pain. I pray you can find comfort and peace.

Will give you a hug tomorrow when I see you

[Bex]

OP, you've been able articulate what so many people feel & go through well.
I wish there were words or something that could take away the hurt you are going through. I hope that this forum provides you with some comfort.

Take care of yourself & I wish you luck for all you want in the future xx

[feeb]

Hugs hun be gentle on yourself, take each day as it comes and never be scared to cry.

I think planting a tree or plant is a lovely idea.

Here if you need to talk.

xoxo

[purplepixie1978]

OP.