minimatron, it must be hard having the bleeding going on so long after a miscarriage, I really feel for you. I'm waiting for it to start and feel like a ghost rattling around the house. I too have been going from one place to the other today - not sure where to post, what I want to say. I don't want to bring my belly buddies down by posting there, I found the pregnancy after LT TTC forum after losing track of it and felt sad I hadn't posted there more often, as they understand the different feelings you have after such a long journey toward pregnancy. I started to post in the miscarriage stories here but when I read how terribly sad they were, I felt like I didn't really have the right to - our loss seems so small in comparison, even though I know it isn't. So I posted here. I'm a bit of a mess today sorry. I hope the bleeding stops soon and you can move forward. Waiting is very hard.
Oh Mel,
I know exactly how you are feeling! After we lost our first bub @ 8 weeks I was crushed, then numb, then ok, then not. Its a long process and it has recently re-surfaced for me as we head down the ttc road again. I know that some days I felt ok but then I would be thrown back into the feelings due to that fact that I was still bleeding - I wanted it to stop so I could try and move on - I tottally get you on that.
Please be kind to yourself and take a while to heal and know that I am eveyone on BB is here for you.
As for the bleeding - I bleed for 3 weeks after my m/c and then a week of not then I got AF as well so I know what you mean.
Hope that helped even a tiny bit, please know that you are welcome to speak in our babby buddies group as well - we are all here for you!
Thanks girls...am having a much better day today. The bleeding has finally stopped. yay is all I have to say. It was really getting me down. So am off to have bloods done tomorrow then to the clinic on Friday. Hopefully thats it. Thanks for all your support, it means so much to me.
Alice, massive huge hugs, you sound so lost. i dont have many words for you that will even start to make you feel better. Just huge hugs.
To know there are so many ladies here to listen and give support is in itself so wonderful.
I'm in the same position, I don't really know where I fit. We lost our baby just recently as well so we're not TTC yet either. Feeling in limbo land here too, so I know what you mean
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sorry. I hope the bleeding stops soon and you can move forward. Waiting is very hard.
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