..... feeling lost

[Kazzo]

I am so very sorry for your loss and the appalling treatment and lack of compassion shown to you. I hope they look after you when you go down to Perth.

[LizLemon]

I couldn't read and not post - I am so very sorry for what you are going through and the treatment you have received. I hope you get the support you need

[ruby-anne]

I honestly didnt think that this could happen, firstly the m/c and then the treatment. It was silly of me to think that i wouldnt m/c just because i had had a fairly easy pregnancy the first time with no scarring or damage to me from giving birth. And my partner i think is not overly phased by the loss. which i kind of understand, women are lucky we get to feel it all and revel in the fact that we have a life growing inside us, the biggest honour anyone could have. We get to bond immediately even knowing they may still just be a speck. but we also are extremely unlucky because of this as well if it comes to losing that honour.

Perth is already offering up the treatment i have read about, the processes under which i should be under going. Ill be sure to keep you all posted as to what happens. and thankyou all so so much again your your kind caring words.

[chepie]

Oh hun I am so very sorry xoxo... I hope that you get the answers and the care you deserve xoox SOrry to read that you have been treated so appalling

[Yas]

OMG! I am so sorry for your loss, and i am so sorry for the way you have been treated. It's hard when you don't feel supported by your partner as well, or when they aren't devastated like us women are.... Massive and i hope you get treated properly in perth xxxxxx

[OceanPrincess]

I'm so sorry for your loss ruby-anne. I get what you are saying about a woman carrying a baby being an honour...

I really hope you can find some compassion in Perth hun. You haven't been treated at all fairly, kindly or with respect. A woman losing a baby should be shown the love, respect and compassion she deserves.

Thank you for sharing with us and I hope it helped, in some way.

Look after yourself and your little DD

[Miss.September]

Sorry for your loss The way you've been treated is pretty appalling. I hope you can find some answers (and comfort) in Perth.

[LuluHB]

I'm so sorry for your loss. FWIW, the staff I have dealt with at KEMH (I assume that's where you will be going) were really lovely, compassionate and respectful of what I had lost. I hope you receive the same treatment.