My first pregnancy ended in a MC as well (blighted ovum) and I off course was heartbroken and upset, and DH in a way comforted me but was very matter of fact that there wasnt a baby there was an empty sac which did not help me at all as it was still a baby to me!!
When I bought up miletstones that we should have reached he rolled eyes and told me it wasn't ment to be!! Which I did not think was right but in the end I thought we are both coping differently with the MC.

Huge hugs and love you are not alone xoxox