Hi Belle,

I COMPLETELY understand where you are coming from. I've had 2 missed m/c now and underwent a D&C both times. My first was last year and I bled for about 28 days...then got AF on the 31st day (remind me to thank the AF gods for the 3 days off later...) then exactly 2 weeks ago today I had another D&C and only bled for about 9 days. At first it was quite bright red and a lot of it (1 day) then it was like light red coloured water for a couple of days and gradually it became a bit browner and eventually stopped.

It does do your head in. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do really to make it stop. I tried to do some light, and I mean very light, exercise (walking - like an old person 'cos I was in pain) just to try to let gravity do its thing...

I'm sorry that its not pleasant and is getting you down, just know that it will stop. But yes, you will be getting a visit from AF in about 4 weeks or 3 weeks depending where you are up to now with your dates.

I don't have any profound words of wisdom to help or anything but I wanted to let you know the I understand what you are going through. I do hope it gets a little easier for you thogh.

Love Kate x.