Acknowledgement of her daughter, not only her loss will make a big difference.The card and charm are a lovely idea. It says so much without saying anything at all, IYKWIM.

Some people didnt know what to say to me and most didnt say anything. Honestly that hurt very much. Then one of my close friends gave me an angel charm which I wear on a chain. She didnt have to say anything to me but she acknowledged our daughters birth and how much she meant to us, and that gesture meant everything.