i didnt think it would hurt this much

[damprye]

I never matters how far along you are the pain of loss is still present.

[~Kim~]

oh sweetheart .
I don't think you can be prepared for what it brings. Give yourself the space to feel what you feel.

[mbear]

Skybie...i could have written your exact post....im going thru a missed m/c now. I was so relieved at first when AF came...but friday and Sat the clots came (TMI I know...) and it really hit home...that this was the beginning of something special.
I kinda feel like you do today...i was ok yesterday...today i just feel blah...and keep thinking what could have been...
Hugs pet...

[Razzberry]

Skybie - I am soooo sorry to hear this. I remember the pain of loss so clearly and would never wish anyone to feel the pain I did (mostly emotional) Big hugs hun xox

[luna moth]

Ohhhh, great big squeezie hugs, love. It hurts, it hurts so much.

Our genetic counsellor said to us that part of why it hurts so much is that it changes so much. You get your positive result, and it changes your lif instantly. It changes your plans for the next nine months, and subsequently the next twenty years or so.
When it all changes again, usually with no warning, it's a massive shock, and you have to re-make your plans.

I love the way you have represented your in your sig - I think that is such a beautiful way to honor your little angel.

I hope you can get through the hurt soon. Nothing ever makes it go away - you just learn new ways to cope with it And that takes time. So go slowly...

[skybie]

Thanks for ur support ladies, it means so much.
DF doesnt get it at all so its nice to know that i have ppl around me who care
xxx

[~breeze~]

hun It doesnt matter how far along you were, be kind to yourself & grieve your baby you have just lost. Fly free precious Angel xoxo

FWIW I still often think of my bubba I lost at 10 weeks way back in 2003. I'm sure XH never gave our baby a second thought.... some men just dont understand hun (not saying your DH is a bad person or anything, just that some men just dont understand the immediate bond a mother has with her baby )