So so sorry love. Its not comforting at all, you are so right!! I'm also sick of hearing "it's not your fault". I know, that's not comforting either....

You don't want a curette?? I was glad to have it as it meant to could move on, the week with the baby inside when I knew it was a missed miscarriage (I was 8 weeks and it was 5wks 6 days) was Sooooooo hard. But of course there re lots of reasons both ways a d you need to do what works for you.

be kind to yourself. It is stressful and overwhelming so cry as much as you like xox