I'm so sorry for your loss it is devastating emotionally and I understand your frustration completely, I've lost count of the stupid things people have told me in the last 2 weeks im tired of hearing it..... 2 weeks since my d&c and it is getting easier or maybe I'm just expecting them to say it now makes them feel better for filling in the awkward silence??? I dunno I tune it out now....I hope everything goes ok for you and give them a mental slap!!!