Ammelouise, I get your frustration. Much the same as being told you have to have 3 m/c in order to warrant testing and match the statistics.
I really do hope I'm proven wrong (currently 11weeks pregnant) but golly gosh the obstectics and gynologocial associations of Australia's going to know my name! I think it should have more awareness and more research in this day and age surely!

Best if luck with however your fate turns out.
I personally chose a d&c to make it easier to process for me.