If one more doctor, nurse, ultrasound tech, well meaning friend, family member or work colleague says

"Miscarriage is common......it happens all the time...."

I am going to either yell at them or break down and cry.

I know the statement is true but how is it comforting?
To me it is like saying "Get over it and harden up, this has happened to so many other people besides you"

I mean if someone loses their mother or farther you don't say as a form of condolence "People lose their parents all the time, it's very common!"

I do acknowledge that people find it hard to know what to say and are just trying to help.

I am currently waiting for a natural miscarriage to occur after it was found my baby was lost at a 12 week ultrasound. I feel like my life is on hold and I am finding it very difficult to heal when the baby is still physically with me.