Hi Karin, unfortunately many people simply do not understand what you are going through and they don't know what to say or how to make you feel better because the reality is NOTHING will take away your pain! Don't lie about your feelings, talking is so important & sharing your thoughts & memories are all you have so you must be true to yourself. It is a struggle every day and some people just don't see that, they think you should be okay by now but of course you aren't, how can you ever be okay after what you have just experienced????
Thanks Shell, it is such a relief to find people who understand... Yes, every day is a struggle. I don't hide away at home but that also means I am faced with things that hurts, like seeing babies, pregnant women etc etc. But even things in my home hurts. I still haven't removed my pregnancy clothes from my closet and I simply try to not look at it - or the bassinet that is stored in the garage that was supposed to have a baby in it in a few months... So much remind me of what I have lost and what could have been and those things will still be there tomorrow and the next day and the next day, although I am sure that with time it will become easier to face them.

Thanks again for your encouragement. It means so much!
Karin