Deb - my heart sank when I read this post - I'm so sorry for your loss.
Its just so unfair that you should have to go through these losses - didn't you have a chemical pregnancy in November too?
I am feeling a little bit of your pain, and I know how this can make the drive to conceive again even stronger.
I hope you can get some answers from someone soon - and I hope you never have to go through the pain again.
Fi