I know this thread has been empty for awhile but I wanted to post my story. I had a late term miscarriage on Nov 14. I hate that term since I went through labor and elivered my son (19wks 2dys). We had no idea anything was wrong. No cramps, no bleeding. We went in for a routine scan and were excited to find out the baby's sex. We had no idea we would hear, "I am sorry but at this time we can not find a heartbeat." My whole pregnancy was filled with struggles. Four days after we found out we were pregs I started spotting and was put on bed rest. A week later they did a scan to check for viability and it came back no heartbeat. A week later there was a heartbeat and all was good. At 13 weeks we found out we had an elevated risk for Down's syndrome. We were okay with that because DH and I really wanted a baby. I am sitting hear now knowing I should be 23 weeks pregnant and I feel so empty. SO far all the tests came back and no answers. No one tells you that you can lose a baby so late. I thought once we made it out of the 1st trimester we were safe. Sorry about the rant but I am trying to make sense of everything.





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