Anthonysmum - oh honey, I wish I could just give you the world biggest hug and take away the pain and why's. I hope that you can find some time to reflect on the situation and maybe even seek some councilling. My last m/c was to twins in March this year and it totally broke me in half. I was only 7 weeks though
Were you able to physically see Anthony and hold him? Were you able to look at his beautiful face and let him know how much he means to his mummy and daddy? Were you able to kiss him all over???
I hope that you and your DH can grieve your gorgeous son together. Dont let anyone tell you..oh you can have another one....no one will ever replace your Anthony, keep him close to your hearts cause I bet he's smiling down at you both now knowing how much you both love him.