Miscarriage/Loss General Discussion #1

[Miss.September]

We're TTC I thought last month may have been a success, even though I knew it wasn't possible, I allowed myself to hope and get excited only for AF to turn up and shake her fist at me.

I'm feeling excited and anxious. More anxious, me thinks. In a blink of an eye it can all be over. All the hope and dreams. And yet it can go so right too. I'm being positive. I'm going for a walk, eating well and the moment that bit of self pity and sadness creeps in, I find something to do. So I have very clean walls, a nicely pruned front garden and clean light fittings in my kitchen

Telly - How are you going beautiful?

DG - I'm so happy for you. Loved reading your other thread, you must be so relieved.

Saffy - Got my fingers crossed for you that now you have some answers, you'll have a bubba soon!

Freya - Not long to go now! I think things get harder the closer it gets. DH must be excited too! Hope you get your BFP during your travels!

Maruschke - How are you going hun?

Hi to anyone that I've missed. Hope you're all okay

[Freya]

DH is beyond excited. Its all he talks about, which is actually really annoying because for me; yeah I am excited and I get butterflies when I think about picking him up at the airport but Im also so nervous because 8mths is a long time to be alone, raising the kids and running the life that suits us. Im also in a bit of a holding pattern, I know its coming and its not far away but it just doesnt seem 'real' if that makes sense? We've got tons happening between now and then; halloween parties and birthdays and to start getting the christmas stuff organised, packing for Europe. Hopefully it makes time fly but right now its draaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagging on.

[Cocolove]

Hi guys
Ive just lost my baby at 5wks & 3 days pregnant!
All i want to do is start TTC straight away, is that stupid?

[Maruschke]

Hi guys
Ive just lost my baby at 5wks & 3 days pregnant!
All i want to do is start TTC straight away, is that stupid?

No, not silly at all

[Cocolove]

No, not silly at all

I just dont want people to think i dont care about this baby because i do, i loved this baby and if i could get this baby back I would but i cant.
So hopefully his/her spirit will return and grant me a healthy bundle>

This wasnt meant to happen! One of my best friends lost her baby too and we were due on the same day, what are the odds of that Just so devestated

[Maruschke]

Yes it is so devastating

Be easy on yourself. Losing your child has made you realise how much you love and value children and want another. You are motivated by LOVE not by anything else.

[chepie]

Hi ya ladies,

Hope everyone is okay this Sunday morning..

Threetimesblessed - I am sorry you find yourself here, hope you are okay oxoxo the wanting/needing to ttc is so overwhelming isn't it ..GL babe

Freya - Exciting times for you babe xoxo Wow Europe, where abouts are you going?

Maruschke - How are you going hun?


Saffy - Wow! At least you have some answers and can move forward xoxo

Telly - how are you travelling gorgeous lady?

PacRakMG - sorry that witch arrived, I hate it when you think you yes yes yes yes I have all the symptoms surely I gotta be... hugs babe!! Maybe I should take your lead and distract myself too!!!

AFM - well this month I used OPK's and got a very strong positive and now have been obsessing over every single tiny detail and I am in fact losing the plot again. I am angry at myself because I did this last month.. It just takes over my life and I am forever POAS!!! I think I am due sometime this week, who knows with my cycles now.... I almost feel like giving up because it just takes over my LIFE and I don't like the person I become... Sorry for the rant

love you all oxoxo