Miscarriage/Loss General Discussion #1

[Kyls]

Hi Everyone,
Sad to hear about everyone's troubles. I had a miscarrage about 18 months ago. I was only 4 weeks pregnant when it happen and had only just found out that i was pregnant 3 days before. My husband and i were so happy as we had been trying for over a year to fall pregnant. I will never forget that day I cried all that night and for three days after and i will always wonder why it happened and what that baby would have been like, what sex it would have been and what we would have named it. I still think about it everyday and even though i have a beautiful baby boy now that time in my life will never be forgotten. My best wishes go out to everyone.

[Rose1]

Hi everyone,
I'm new here so if i'm doing this wrong sorry

firstly i wanted to pass on my heartfelt sorrow for each and everyone of you. I know what you're all going through
I miscarried 4 weeks ago at 9 weeks... This was our first pregnancy and we were absolutely over the moon even though the pregnancy wasn't planned. The worse thing was we got so excited we told family, friends, work ... everyone... 4 weeks after finding out the good news i had a slight cramping and noticed a bit of spotting. I totally panicked and my husband rushed me to emergency.. they said they couldn't do anything but to come back the day after for an Ultrasound... did so and we were asked if there was anyway that i mistook how far along I was supposed to be....right then i knew that baby was gone... apparently foetus was at 7 weeks... no Heartbeat...

doctors advised since it was my first pregnancy that a curette wasn't a good idea.. so let everything happen naturally... was the worst pain i think i've ever experience in my life... a week later sac and foetus passed through... i felt like someone pulled my heart from my chest...

am still finding it really hard to come to terms with and haven't yet had my period and don't know how long im supposed to wait for this to happen... i'm keen to start trying to conceive again.

People just don't seem to understand what i'm going through.

heartbroken