Nicambhar - each loss is your special person matie..you grieve honey. Jed and i made a garden for our babies we have lost. It helps at times when I feel down or even on a 'normal' day when I look out of my window and my eye catches hold of the plants, I think of my babies. Jed and i even named our twins cause they ment os much to us. Sunni and Willow.
I hear you on falling pg again....it really was very difficult for me to accept this little person growing in me. I felt guilty almost yet scared $hitless at the same time. Just take time for you and DH right now matie, and again, allow yourself to cry as much as you want to.
Odette and susannah - girls, I am so so sorry for you both. I know it doesnt really mean much when your heart has been torn in 2 but please know that if you need to talk and just get out all the angry and hurt, there are other people standing next to you to support you here. Take some time out for yourselfes and remember the little person you had developing inside of you, even if it was for a sort time. Cherish them in your hearts. I wish I could just give you all the biggest hug. I had no-one other than my darling Jed and the wonderful girls here at BB to help my thorugh my m/c. Fmaily and firends (RL) were usless with their false concerns as many of them had never had a m/s before so they couldnt relate to the pain inside.
Try and relax girls...with everystep back...you do actually start to inch forward.
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