Bubble, thank you for you lovely words hun, and I am so sorry again about your recent loss . The only reason why we found out the gender of our embryo was because we wanted to see why I had the m/c (my maternal age is quite advanced) and since we were having the d & c, the doctor agreed. It did actually make it harder to find out what the gender was, as we have had 2 boys and this time it would have been a girl. Take one day at a time hun, m/c is a tough journey, but each day is a bit easier and there is absolutely no reason to feel guilty about trying again soon after a m/c. I also wanted to try asap after both my losses. Big hugs sweetie, and I wish you every success in your TTC journey xx