Welcome Em, and I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I also had a mc at 8w6d, and just like you I had the scan and they said I had a very thick lining still - I was only lightly spotting at that point so I wondered about that, but I am still bleeding now, which is my 2nd (very heavy) af. I felt quite weak at times too in the beginning, and put it down to bloodloss... my whole family was sick at around the same time, so it was hard to tell what was what. Big hugs xx

Ladybirdflies - no, mine was a natural mc. I understand the freak-out, it causes me stress trying again, and it causes me more stress not being able to try again. Go gently. I'm glad you are getting your test results very soon, and hope it will make you feel better about trying. Was it only the ureaplasma you tested for or was it a bunch of stuff (sorry i can't remember).

keike - *hugs* that's hard xx

alison - don't be jealous haha... this is the neverending af that never um seems to end lol. Soooo much heavier than my usual too.

AFM - please let my body get back to normal after this af... I think i will feel so much better and less in a slump/grump when my body is behaving itself. Hugs to all xx