Diamond Girl,
Im so sorry again hun.....Ive lost a baby 11wk5days. I had a D&C because i was only bleeding lightly, but i did have mitaprostol before the D&C to ripen the cervix and started bleeding heavily....you pretty much go into labour.......and i felt the baby come out.
Sorry if that sounds bad, its really hard to write, it was the absoulute worst thing that ever happened to me ever.
sending you love and comfort xx
DG - im so sorry you have to go through this it is the worst, i unfortently lost my very first pregnancy to a miscarriage and i was 11wks it wasnt very nice as i did it all naturally i refused a D&C, but the way you are feeling i could probably recommend a D&C so you dont get more heartbroken by what you could possibly see (i wont describe as i dont want to upset you more) but it broke my heart so i could only imagine how you would feel as well
Please accept my thoughts and prayers for you and your DH right now
Im doing ok at the moment. But its still hard of course.
Thankyou Yas and Mizqtue for sharing your experiences. Its not something any of us should have to go through . I think going for a natural m/c would be too hard on me emotionally. I dont know if I could handle seeing it all...so a D&C it must be.
Friday will be so difficult, but afterwards I suppose the healing can begin, somehow.
Last edited by Diamond Girl; January 25th, 2011 at 07:39 PM.
Oh no honey I am so sorry!! I saw your post about my advice to avoid misoprostol, but didn't realise you were in that situation. Isn't it awful? So unfair
oh gosh darling, i am so so sorry. please be kind to yourself but deal with it how you need.
I have too suffered a loss and found absolute comfort in the beautiful words from the gorgeous gals on bb.
look after yourself. Be kind to yourself. cry. smile at the possibilities and hope for the future
x madame x
Hi DG,
How are you feeling today? Is the bleeding still light? Can you have the D&C any earlier than friday hun?
Thinking of you and for you.
Sending you lots of
xxx
Today is another bad day. I still cant believe I have had two angels in a row. How is that fair? Yet so many people would die to have what I have and I am so grateful that I got to have my first 2 pgs without care or worry of m/c.
Yas, my bleeding is still off and on, just spotting really and Im not in any pain. My OB is on leave today and tomorrow so he booked it for Friday. Its at the same hospital that I brought my two gorgeous boys home from
DG- I know there is nothing i can say that will help....have you had any tests done? Are you requesting any testing on the baby?
Don't ever feel like you can't grieve for the bubs you have lost because you have 2 children- a wise friend said to me that you shouldn't be expected to find comfort for the death of a child in the survival of it's sibling/s.
Yeah, it doesn't sound like it's going to happen on it's own, and i think (just my opinion) that it's best to have a D&C, it's easier emotionally (if anything can be called easy with the horrible circumstances) and your body should settle down and get back to normal pretty quickly.
Its horrible that it's the same hospital Im thinking of you
Sending you lots of
xxx
Yas, My OB said he only does testing after a third m/c, but I will ask him again. He said the reason is most likely cromosomal problems because we had already seen a heartbeat. Thankyou so much for being so caring.
DG- No need to thank me, im just so sorry you have to go through this. I would insist on testing, especially since you will be having a D&C darl- i had that done last time. I was told that she had chromosonal issues blah blah, but insisted on the testing anyway and what do you know? NOTHING wrong with her.
The doctors said 3 m/c to me too after my 2nd, and i went along with that and ended up having another m/c.
I'm not trying to scare you but i'd just insist on it because it's 2 in a row.
I hope your resting and eating lots of choclate and getting big
I'll keep checking up on you throughout the day hun.
xxxx
Reply With Quotei'm so sorry for the loss of your little miracle
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. I think going for a natural m/c would be too hard on me emotionally. I dont know if I could handle seeing it all...so a D&C it must be.
for you.
Im thinking of you
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