i was going to give pretty much the same advice as Trish - even though it might seem to be passing ok at home, it is always best to see the GP - it's always best to be safe and get it checked out - if for no other reason than to make sure it is a loss, not an ectopic pregnancy. ectopics can cause excessive pain, bleeding etc, BEFORE becoming a major problem.

i'm really sorry you and your DW are going through this - words just aren't enough to convey how much i feel for you both

BG