thread: Should I say something?

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jun 2008
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    A card would be lovely. Just let her know to open it at home. If you look up lostforwordscardline, you'll find some beautiful cards for baby loss.

    Also, she may need to take that day off work, if it's a work day.

  2. #2
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    Sep 2007
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    No don't do it.

    SHe has specifically told the Boss she doesn't want to discuss it and she just wants to carry on business as usual. So the nicest thing you can do for her is to NOT do anything .... maybe make her a coffee or something but uf she has asked for it not to be discussed then she has made her stance pretty clear.

    Cards etc are a lovely gesture and if you had a close friendship perhaps mail something to her house but she is probably trying to keep her mind focussed when she is at work and something might cause her to backslide in her greif.

    what a lovely person you are though. Like I said if you have a close relationship with her send a card or something to her home but she might also have the stance that she doesn't want any physical reminders of what is missing from her life ITMS.

    Its tricky, maybe she will take the day off work?

    Nae x