Krit - for me I found it best to soldier on. I still wanted a baby, more than ever after being pg. I couldnt sit and dwell on it, otherwise it would have consumed me. The bfn the next cycle was difficult and I didnt ever want to do another stim, but again my desire for a baby gave me the strength I needed. I too was sooo over ivf and when we got pg the first time that was one of the things I was most grateful for.

I still think about the baby we lost and how it would have been due in 6 weeks, but I am so very very happy I ploughed on even when I didnt want to.

the day of the d&c is very hard. Even though you know its gone, its still inside you and I didnt want them to take it. Prepare yourself for a very crappy day. For me it was worse than the day of the scan.

Hopefully the results will give you some answers. Much love to you and you dh and little girl. Make sure you cuddle your dh as he needs it to. Mine was all strong at the time but weeks later fell apart and really struggled. It seemed once I was a bit better he could have his moment.

Much love.