Shazz, I feel for you in your decision and what has happened.
The IVF is hard, and then to have it ripped from you like it was is just soooooo gut wrenching & unfair.
Take care & know that there are people to talk to about anything & everything. M/c are sometimes the hardest things to get out.

Having my own m/c after IVF this week I am very much in the 'frustrated' stage feeling that you go through so much to get pg, only then to get teased with a positive, and then it ripped away.