I am another one with a 'shrine'. I also agree with Lisa and hate packing away Taite and Seth's ashes or pics when I move.

Is there anywhere else you could put Nikita's ashes so it doesn't feel like she is hidden away? I know personally I have always had to have Taite and Seth's ashes in the lounge room. I hope you find somewhere special to put them that makes you comfortable..

Diamond Girl you are so right. Where to put your child's ashes is definitely a decision no Mama should have to make