Firstly I'm sorry for your loss and pain, I know how overwhelming it can be. I am approaching the second anniversary of my son's birth/death.

I guess the question is what do you FEEL like doing? You could put some sad music on, go through the photos you have and cry, or you could go to a park and just BE for a while. I like to listen to the music we played at my son's funeral and look at the pics when I need to have a good cry.

On my son's birthday (the same day he died) my friends all over Australia lit candles for him, you could ask people to do that for you aswell.

Lots of love to you at this difficult time, may you find peace within your sadness today.