I'll jump straight to the details because I am not really in the mood right now for anything else, but I know you will all understand. I am/was 11 weeks along but not with a blighted ovum and a 2.5cm fetal sac. I have been booked in for a suction curette on Monday - apparently because on Friday my uterus was high and closed I wasn't considered a food candidate for the "let it pass by itself" or insertion of tablets way of dealing with things. But now I am starting to question whether a curette is the best option for me - the risks of perforation, infection, Asmerman's syndrome and so on are not appealing. I thought by having the procedure I could get back on the TTC wagon sooner but either way it looks like we will have to wait til Feb anyway. I know everyone's medical history is different but I figure an obstetrics industry that is hyper-interventionalist in birth is probably the same at the other end of the scale so would welcome some views on the subject, especially any medical/midwifery ones.