I'm sorry for your loss Laurin. You've been given wonderful advice already.
With my losses at 5 & 7 weeks, nature took its course and I miscarried at home. Once the bleeding had subsided, I went for an ultrasound to check that everything had passed.
With my experiences, the pain was quite bad and there was a lot of bleeding and clots. However both times I did not bleed for too long. Only a couple of days from memory.
Take care of yourself hun. I know you're alone at the moment at home, but remember you're not alone in the BB world.