Thanks everyone for your replies.
I felt very harrassed on Tuesday because she continued to txt message and ring me and I just got to the point where I sent her a message saying she needed to respect my decision not to talk to her at the moment and then I turned my phone off.
I just want to get on with greiving for my precious angel and all she wanted to do was talk about how we had upset her.
We are lucky that we have some real friends that care enough about us to give us space right now and be there for us when we are ready to talk.
Everyone on BB has been such a great support to me through this and I thank you all.
Cindy