what happens now?

[Eenee]

Thanks for that Michelle, will definitely think about that and see how I go. hmm but i'm still so indecisive. But have even stopped spotting now- so if it is going to happen on it's own it's taking forever!

[KitFaerie]

I had a D&C at 10 weeks, baby was 6 weeks 4 days, missed miscarriage. It was christmas so I went with the D&C cos I just wanted it to be over. Surgery went well, spotting for 2 weeks afterwards, AF 4 weeks after that, back in normal cycle and trying again now. I was told it could take a while for anything to happen naturally, I'd had no spotting, and that a D&C might be needed anyway. My only advice would be if you do go with a D&C to get suction, not curettage, as it doesn't carry the same scarring risks. And dont do any exercise or heavy lifting after, cos you can start to bleed again.

Good luck for the days ahead, we're all thinking of you. xoxo

[MistyFying]

em I'm so sorry

[Eenee]

well i've been trying to get to talk to the Dr about my results all day- but for some reason they don't have my results yet. So the receptionist (probably got sick of me ringing up) said she will get him to ring me as soon as they come in! Thankgoodness cos I get nervous everytime I have to pick up that phone to ring. Anyways more waiting whats new!

Thanks everyone for your support

[Eenee]

Dr just rang, and I just agreed to have a D&C- scared as! but i'm sick of waiting for it to pass on it's own- just too painful for me to keep waiting. He said he will get back to me once he has arranged with the hospital.

Did I mention I was scared! he said either tomorrow or sat morning- i'm hoping tomorrow cos Dh is away with Army on sat and i'll have no one to take me. Man i'm scared, and I know it's my decision but still.

[Cassius2]

I am that they can get you in tomorrow. Did you tell your GP that DH will be away Sat and if he could wrangle a few arms and get them to see you tomorrow so he can be there?

sending lots of prayers and hugs your way

[Eenee]

Cassius: I was going to tell him, but my heart was jumping around to much to say anything. Stupid really but I just get so nervous. I'm hoping if it is Sat that the army will let Dh get out of it.