I had a D&C at 10 weeks, baby was 6 weeks 4 days, missed miscarriage. It was christmas so I went with the D&C cos I just wanted it to be over. Surgery went well, spotting for 2 weeks afterwards, AF 4 weeks after that, back in normal cycle and trying again now. I was told it could take a while for anything to happen naturally, I'd had no spotting, and that a D&C might be needed anyway. My only advice would be if you do go with a D&C to get suction, not curettage, as it doesn't carry the same scarring risks. And dont do any exercise or heavy lifting after, cos you can start to bleed again.

Good luck for the days ahead, we're all thinking of you. xoxo