Why do people insist on saying this??

[glenny_c]

I think maybe some people need to think that everything happens for a reason to make it easier for them. I think a lot of those kind of comments are about making the person saying it feel better rather than trying to make you feel better.

Also- I think it totally sucks that your babies are gone. It is totally unfair and I can't think of a reason.

[Ginger]

i don't believe that 'everything happens for a reason'. not for a second. i actually really hate that saying and it grates on me like fingernails down a blackboard every time someone says it to me. ignore them hun. it sux and its unfair and there is absolutely no reason for it.