I am sorry people are not more sensitive when it comes to losses.

That said, I am a real believer that "Everything happens for a reason" I believe whole heartedly that I have been through hell and back for a reason, that NIkita's death happened for a reason, that my miscarriages have happened for a reason.
I hate that I have been through it all BUT I am who I am for ALL my experiences and I would not be the mother I am if I had not been through such devastation.

Hun its not always what we want to hear though and I am sorry that people cannot just say "I am sorry" to you