Oh darl, thats awful Men find it difficult enough to understand miscarriage and the trauma that goes with it, without deliberately being stubborn about it!

If your DH now admits that it WAS a miscarriage, surely he wouldn't blow up at you now? If he does, personally I would blow up right back at him! You've gone through a hell of a lot to get where you are, the least he can do is keep himself informed and supportive. The fact that he's branded you at best a 'hysterical woman' is shameful, and I think he needs to understand just how deeply it has affected you.

Our husbands do thoughtless things sometimes, but we can make them understand what we're going through. Perhaps if you waited until you are not crying, and you have a clear head, and then initiated this conversation with him? Don't accuse him of anything, just explain how his actions and the results from his actions have made you feel - there's no way he can argue with that, because they are YOUR feelings. I know its hard to remain calm in a conversation like that, but I had to do the same thing with my DH, and it got him to finally understand how much extra damage he was causing.

I hope everything turns out alright between you and your DH, and I can't wait to see your BA!