Why are you crying Mummy?

[Diamond Girl]

How do you tell a 5 year old that you are crying because:

1. Today, exactly one year ago you had a scan that showed a healthy bean dancing on the screen. I remember the date exactly because it was the day before my mums birthday and I remember how excited I was. Little did I know what was to come.

2. My due date for the next loss is only days away.

3. I had planned to have my 20 week scan this week.

Recurrent miscarriage sucks. I had to wipe away the tears and tell him mummy is sad because she misses his baby brothers and sisters who are in Heaven.

[Kazzo]

Lots of for you DG I am so sorry that this has happened to you.

[Maruschke]

Yes it does suck

[Purple Penguin]

[Lily Dust]

I am so sorry DG, it isnt fair. I have said that a thousand times and it really never seems enough. You handled the answer beautifully with your DS. What a lovely caring little boy you are raising

[OceanPrincess]

Oh hun, I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. He just wants you to be ok.

[Joeve]

Hugs x

[LuluHB]

So hard to deal with. Hugs to you for these difficult milestones coming up. Sounds like a lovely sensitive little man you're raising there.

[dantri]

Hugs DG. I can only imagine the pain you are feeling. What a gorgeous little boy you have. I'm sorry you have to feel like this. It is so unfair. xoxoxo

[Diamond Girl]

You all a correct, my little boy has such a caring, sensitive nature. He just wants to see me happy. I hate being sad in front of him, but sometimes I cant help it.

[skybie]

What you said toh im was perfect hun.
GBH xxx

[peanutter]

I think what you told him is perfect. Honest, age appropriate, and showing him that having feelings, crying and missing your babies is ok.

What a beautiful and kind little man you've raised ...

Thinking of you xo

[Miss.B]

Aww hun, I'm so sorry that life is so unfair sometimes. Sending you many hugs xoxo

[chepie]

Oh beautiful lady I am sorry.... Your boy is gorgeous ..... yes it is unfair babe - sending you a massive hug oxoxoxo

[Jewel]

[myturn]

I agree with the others - you handled it was grace and honesty - and if it helps, it is 'good' for children to see their parents emotional and to watch how their parents handle those feelings in healthy ways. You have shown him that feelings are 'okay' and that is SO important.

big s

[snikkers1]

Big Hugs xo

[carolinaw]

big hugs for you. And I would tell him i am crying because I am happy to have a lovely child like him. And I love him so much.