thread: night toilet training and waking them for trips to the toilet

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  1. #1

    Mar 2004
    Sparta
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    An important thing is not to use dehydration as the method for 'night training', though. This is not training anything, just, well, dehydrating.
    Lots of children are so busy during the day that they don't remember to drink so by the evening they are dehydrated and thirsty as hell. You can set yourself up for dry nights by making sure that they drink throughout the day.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Nov 2005
    Where the heart is
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    That's true, too.
    I would have thought it preferable, though, to help activate awareness and reconnect the messages between the sphincter and conscious mind (being that babies are born knowing they need to go and we train them out of it by putting nappies on them - no individual judgment, I did it with my first, because of cultural assumption!), rather than to delay this internal communication by achieving dryness through withholding of liquids.
    I'm so sorry for the factual rendering of my explanations, I am firmly in academic-writing style-mode after completing two assignments this week and it will be a while before my stylised writing mojo comes out from hiding again!!
    Anyway, you can take the liquid withholding route and hope for the best over a longer period of time (because he will eventually want a drink before bed and need to figure out staying dry), or take a more intense learning period of helping him gain awareness of his body and its processes. It's not the easy way, but then, having done both ways, neither is easy and one made a lot more sense, with greater longitudinal benefit. Just sayin'
    Keeping it positive and achievable is the key to however you do it.
    ETA: Onyx, your move
    Last edited by Smoke Jaguar; October 21st, 2011 at 12:48 PM.

  3. #3

    Mar 2004
    Sparta
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    Onyx, your move
    Lol, I'm not disagreeing with you. I agree that dehydration isn't a good way to achieve dry nights which is why it is good to tackle hydration throughout the day to reduce the demand for water at night.

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    Mar 2011
    Sydney, Australia
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    My mum just woke me up each night till my bed wetting stopped, I tell you that training stayed with me until I was about 20 haha. I was so proficient at it I would do it sleep walking.