thanks Maya and yes I don't make a big deal about it, just change the sheets and get on with it. It's a nice reason to sleep with him again (he has just started 'sleeping' through most nights)

Onyx I think the day hydration is a really good point and something I have noticed that DS doesn't drink as much as he should through the day and this is something I am going to have to concentrate on.

Thanks doubletrouble for sharing your experiences and I think I will just take it a night at a time. Thanks Lolipegs, I was a sleep walker and mum use to tell stories of me trying to go out the front door or open the TV cabinet to go to the toilet and she said she had to guide me. This is the thing too, I don't go to bed til late and go to the toilet before bed and as soon as I wake up so I am not 'holding' on for more then 6-8 hrs most nights and I am hoping he can hold on for 10-12 hrs

BUT he seems to have come down with a vomiting bug tonight so I did put him in a pullup in case we are struck with diarrhea....