Don't worry too much Jayne. My niece turns 3 in April and she is only just toilet trained (most days). Charlotte would often do #2 in her pants and then tell her mum but this has improved and she is sooooooo excited when she does #1 in the potty that she wants to take it out to show you Just a little bit messy!!

Unfortunately I don't have any advice for how to make it better but Jessica is doing a GREAT job of being toilet trained at her age (and so is her mummy too )