thanks sherwils I'll think about that more too... she does do it wherever we change the nappy whether it be on the change table/ground or bed... the only place she didn't do it was at the shops when I strapped her in...
I bought the good wipes this time, so maybe they are irritating her because they have more stuff in them? or the perfume? dunno... :-k

today I have been singing songs to her with hand movements first and then blowing rasberries on her belly etc to distract her & it worked for two of the three nappy changes...its just hard to clean up the poo ones quickly iykwim...lol