I am currently bf #2 and feed times are generally when DD#1 decides to do her poos......I really don't think DD really understands the toilet concept although she can tell me what she should do perfectly We have stickers in play for trying as well as ones for when she finally does do a poo/wee in the potty....I have plans for the warmer weather to pop normal knickers on her to hopefully connect the sensations with weeing and pooing and going to the toilet.

Here's my query: do I let her tell me when she has obviously done a poo in her nappy (can't miss 'em! ) and only change her when she says something or do I pounce on it as soon as I smell it.....once the feed time for #2 has finished???

Will waiting til she recognises it be more helpful for her to learn?? I was just wondering if me stepping in will somehow stop her realising what she's done.
Same with wees - although, she never tells me, even after she has leaked all over the lounge

Having one of those days where I am desperate to only have to change one lot of nappies and outfits Your thoughts would be lovely! Thanks!