Improving libido?

[PumpkinZulu]

DH and I are going pretty well, and I'm still not quite there yet. The mind is a crazy powerful thing.

[LionsandBears]

Give things a try but apart from the psychological thing, other medication can suppress libido. Things like the Pill mess with hormonal balance and a few stones arent going to be able to overcome that.

Dont underestimate the effect of trust and other things on a relationship. Remember, sex is not a need, it's a privilege. Needs include food, water, shelter. Noone's ever died from lack of sex. I dont dismiss the importance of intimacy in a relationship but it's not something to demand or cajole or sulk for.