Mrs Mc - congratulations on your baby boy's birth!

I understand that feeling well - when you explain he feels like he belongs to the hospital. I remembered with my other baby's I was very very protective of being the only hands that touched her'/him exploring their little bodies. With a prem it's so different.

Something that helped me is that I reminded nyself that Imogen was still gestating. That she wasn't supposed to be born and this was an extension of her gestation.

When I took her home I loved just looking at her naked, snuggling skin on skin etc.

The time will come darling woman when your little boy will be home and he will feel like yours. Slowly slowly. For now lean on us here for support when you need it.