Leaving Baby

[Eenee]

Hun you have been through so much any wonder you are having a hard time dealing with things. Don't be too hard on yourself, it must be hard having to leave your little man behind every day. Hopefully the time will go quick and you'll all be home as a family again.

[delphmoon]

It would be absolutely heartbreaking to have t leave your baby everyday

I am sure he is in great hands and I hope your happy and healthy baby boy comes home soon

[~*Kat*~]

Thanks Em
Delphmoon Flynn is doing so well and I know he is being well taken care of, most of the nurses r fantastic, its just really hard to let them look after him when it should be me cos I am his mum.
I think I will cope reasonably well with a bit of help but I know I have past the first step in admitting that I am not coping that well. Getting grief from DH about not being home doing the cleaning and cooking has not helped but I am not a miracle worker and I cant be on 100 places at once and he will just have to deal with it. If that means take away for dinner then thats what will happen I just dont have the time or energy to waste on fighting with him

[UntoldAngel]

Sending lots of to you, I can't even begin to imagine what it would be like

[~ Zarava Flutterby ~]

i have not been there but have had a friend who has and it was heartbreaking seeing the pain she was going through not being there all day every day with her LO.
Firstly your husband needs to realise you have a child PLUS a baby in hospital, THEY are your priorities.
Do you have anyone than can come around and help with cleaning, family etc that might be able to make you some meals.

If you need help don't be afraid to ask, people will realise your going through a tough time and i think ANYONE in your position would be feeling the same stresses.

[~*Kat*~]

My family r great but after me being in hospital for 8 weeks before I had Flynn and now they still need to help look after DD while I am in at the hospital with the baby I dont want to ask too much.
I am managing to do bits and peices around the house including cleaning a kitchen that didn't look like it has been touched in weeks (long before I came home from hospital) and feeding DD and myself breakfast and stuff so he can stick it. I need to be with Flynn and if that means I dont cook dinner he can get over it theres no reason why he cant cook (except I have to clean up after him or it wont get done)